Perfect Love Stories

1. You’re not as detached as you think.
Call it the curse (and blessing) of Sex and the City. Guys finally got the message that just because a woman wants to get naked with him doesn’t mean she wants a marriage proposal. However, it also advanced the idea of unemotional sex, which according to science is more difficult than it seems.

In her book Unhooked: How Young Women Pursue Sex, Delay Love and Lose at Both (Riverhead Hardcover, 2007), author Laura Sessions Stepp highlights research studies that conclude having sex releases a different set of brain chemicals in women than men.

Specifically, women get a large dose of oxytocin, the hormone that makes you want to bond and create relationships. Men don’t get the oxytocin warm-fuzzies because of testosterone, making it easier for them to “love and leave,” at least biologically speaking.

Stepp says that evolution has hard-wired us for these tendencies, which can be confusing in our sexually liberated world. So be warned: You may want the sex to be casual… but you could end up with a serious case of attachment.

2. He may be cheating on someone else… with you!
Why is this your problem, you may ask? You’re not the one being unfaithful. But do you really want to be the “other woman?” The one who breaks up a relationship and causes another woman’s heartbreak? We’re guessing not.

Even the sneakiest guy can give away clues that he’s taken:
He only gives you his cell phone number and always leaves the room to take calls.
He’s quick to suggest hanging out at your place but never offers up his own digs.
He avoids taking you to certain neighborhoods (and not because they’re dangerous).
Suddenly no one has a name. He was out with “the guys” or “people from work.”
He becomes defensive when you ask him questions about his weekend plans, where he hangs out, etc.

Even if you’re not planning a long-term relationship with the guy, you should steer clear of him and his unfaithful ways. And if you’re hoping your night of passion leads to a hand-holding, boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, just know that once a cheater, always a cheater.

3. He’s a taker.
“Taking” isn’t always about money. A guy can be a taker in other ways – time, attention, your sexual generosity.

But first, the money: There’s no right or wrong about who pays for dates, as long as you’re both okay with the arrangement. However, if you open your wallet more often than you’d like and you’ve expressed this to him, then it’s probably time to cash in and call it quits.

He may also exploit your attraction in other ways. Can you pick him up from the airport? (Cabs cost so much!) Do his laundry? (He’s out of soap.) Host a couple of his buddies to watch the game? (You’re such a good cook.) Buy his mom a birthday present? (He has no idea what to get.) If any of these sound familiar, you’ve got a taker.

Unfortunately, this attitude usually continues in the bedroom. Don’t expect this guy to be attentive to your needs and preferences – most likely, his pleasure comes first and probably last.

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Now being female you’d think I’d have a pretty good take on this one wouldn’t you! Well I do and I don’t. Women can come across as sweet innocent and vulnerable when in reality they might be lean mean manipulating machines! Game players extraordinaire , and therein the problem lies. While some women may show classic signs of being in love, such as being very clingy and bombarding you with an endless stream of texts/emails and phone calls, there are others who play a much more cunning game and will do the exact opposite of what you might expect from someone who is interested in you.

The game may involve, NOT being available for you, not chasing and not accommodating your every whim. This game is supposed to make it more of chase for you and thus men being men, will be more interested if there is a chase rather than it being handed to them on a plate.

Game playing aside, let’s start at the beginning. What are the subtle signs a woman likes you? Assuming you have just met, this may involve a few of the following:

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Crushes are known to be the easy doorway into the planet of strong emotions and affairs, without having much of the distressing hazard involved in really dating someone. A crush more truly means to admire someone from far-off. It’s a very cute feeling which deters obligation of any sort. You actually enjoy the little spring of emotion that grows in your heart and it is indeed an incredibly powerful feeling that might take you to the crest of sheer obsession.

This adorable feeling of crush is usually experienced on people who are very unlikely to fall for a relationship with you. Often observed among the teenagers, crushes can be on anyone and at anywhere. Teachers, actors, band members, scout leaders or any one of higher authority can be your crush. You can also have crush on your class mate. We all have crushes in our life and this is something we look back on with great fondness.

Crushes usually happens when you meet someone for the first time and there is some special quality in the person which draws your attention so much that you get attracted to him or her drastically. When crushes occur, you tend to think about the person day or night where there may be the least possibility for a passionate relation between you two. But if the crush is a both sided one then it might get transformed into love with the consent of duo. Crushes can happen at any age and it can also crop up in your heart even if you are into a romance already.

You are thrilled when they are close to you and feel wretched when they are away. You become so impatient that you always want to tell the person how much you like him or her but are scared at the same time of his or her rebuff. A hasty heartbeat and clammy palms are the main indication for a person in crush. Sometime out of excess excitement, youngsters start drooling when they get in touch with their crush.

At the beginning, it might seem very hard to settle out things in one’s mind and especially in one’s heart but within few weeks or few months everything will even out and soon you will learn to bring your emotion under control. A crush if dealt in an understanding manner, eventually takes the form of a more meaningful bond; it can be an everlasting friendship or a romance.

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Have you ever met someone who you thought is worth your time and then you realized it was a mistake? Yep, I know. You feel so bad about it, right? Don’t worry about it. They are many people out there who make the same mistake over and over again. Either way, you can’t blame them for trying to find a special someone. People weave through all the bad ones in order to get to the good ones. In order to do that, you should look for signs that will make you realize that this person is worth your time. For instance:

1) Talk is cheap. They have to prove what they say. There are many people out there that will just not do what they say. If all they do is talk the talk and not walk the walk, then move on.

2) Strong Chemistry. If you have a strong bond with each other from the start, follow your intuition and go with the flow.

3) Past relationships. I know most people don’t like to mention their past relationships, but this is a good way to know the person’s past behaviors.

Overall, it varies for people from time to time. If you see those simple signs, you will know that this person is worth your time.

Loveworth

Seducing your date is very important in our relationship. Without seducing the relationship will never grow or be strong. Our entire life is running by some seduced things, may be it is some Ideology, opposite sex or material things. In relationship each and every lives in this earth seduce their counter part.

In the fine art of seduction, women loves to flow things naturally where men loves adventures. Men thinks different ways to seduce their date when they meet. When women comes to know that the man who is seducing her isn’t the person who in a loving mod, the act of seduction will excites her more. This is because women loves, her lover or the date to be innovative when seeking love.

We may have seen on colleges guys doing different tricks to make the girls to turn to speak with him. May be girls don’t give positive seduced signal at first. They may show an angry face or a uninterested face to the guy first. But guys continues to use different tricks. One fine day the girl will show the seduced look and start their love life. What made her to show like that. She loved his tricks from the start but she want to be choosy in love. So she makes him to do all innovative tricks to seduce her to get her love. Girls love seduction but naturally.

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You are at a party and out of nowhere someone is standing close to you. Like a genie, they keep turning up, close by, catching your gaze. You go and chat and they stand in the same position as you, playing with their hair, laughing with you and holding your gaze. This person likes you and is flirting. How do you know? Because without realizing it, you are an expert in flirting and body language.

What would dating be without flirting. Flirting is fabulous, flirting is fun, flirting is giving out signals that we may be interested in someone, or we may be pretending. But within reason, flirting is part and parcel of our daily lives. Flirting can be harmful when it threatens fidelity but it can also be sexy and bring people closer together. Some people are good at flirting and some people hopeless.

Are you a flirt? If you are you know it and are secretly proud of the fact. It is sexy when you flirt and people like it. Flirting means giving people attention, it means, smiling, touching, whispering. In the right circumstances it is a powerful tool especially against the unwary. In the wrong circumstances it will get you fired. There is a gulf between flirting and unwanted sexual advances so beware.

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This is one of those things which all of us have had to deal with at one point or another, and if you haven’t had the chance to try and find a date, give it time, because you will. For some people it will never be a problem, but for others, it may be one of the most difficult things to accomplish. If you fit into the category where you feel like you could use some tips, hopefully these help!

First thing is first, you need to have confidence in yourself. When you have confidence in yourself, it changes the way you see things that happen around you. You know what you stand for, and you have a clear direction of what you want out of life. This doesn’t always mean you know how to get there, but the fact is that you believe in yourself. Confidence is one of the most important qualities you can have when looking to get a date.

You will need to go to places where you can meet people. This may mean that you will have to step out of your comfort zone and try new and different things where those opportunities will arise. This might be difficult for you and it may seem like its not something that you can do, but once you are in it you will discover new things about yourself and who knows, you may just meet the right person.

You may find that doing things alone can be tough because it’s easy to get stuck in your comfort zone, so you may want to consider doing things in a group. When you are with a group of people it can be a much simpler process of approaching someone new. Your friends can help you meet and start a conversation with people who might be the right fit for you. Someone once said that there is safety in numbers, and when you are trying to get a first date, that might not be far from the truth.

Have some manners and show some respect. Learn to treat people as you would like to be treated. You don’t have to be someone else to try and impress people. Be yourself and give people the kind of treatment you would like to have. To many times people try to be something that they are not in order to spark interest from the opposite sex, and it always comes back to bite them. Sooner or later your true colors are going to shine, so why not allow yourself to be you from the beginning.

Dating can offer some of the best times of your life. You will remember these times for years to come, so take the time to enjoy the ride. Most importantly, relax and have fun!

As always, we are looking and hoping for the perfect man. Even online, we are still keeping hope alive.

The Perfect Man…will not call you at the house early in the morning, because he knows you are always running late. But when you get to work and turn your computer on, the first message is from the perfect man: “Good morning Sweetie. I will have you in my thoughts today.”

You’re having a rough day, but thank God it is time to go to lunch! A chance to re-group…when you return to work, there is a bouquet of 18 roses. Each one is a different vibrant color that energized the remainder of your day. Only the perfect man could sense you needed this!

The day is over; you’re rushing around to get an additional 8 hours of unpaid work done in 4 hours! Single motherhood…if it wasn’t for the unconditional love you have for your children…? It would be slavery! The grocery store…the mailbox… dinner… homework… housework…laundry…lay out the school clothes…you take a break and sort through the mail. An uncontrollable smile spreads across your face…there’s a greeting card from your perfect man…that simply says: I’m Thinking Of You! There is also a hand painted, red satin bookmark that says: “Knowing You Has Bookmarked A Place In My Heart.” It was all you needed to finish your long, tiring day.

It’s almost over…on your way to take a long relaxing bath, you noticed there is a voice message on your phone. Wearily, you retrieve the message…anticipating an issue you really aren’t in the mood to deal with. The message is from the perfect man. His message? “I know you’ve had a long rough day…once you are settled in for the night, give me a call…I want to be the last voice you hear before you go to sleep…then I will meet you in your dreams…”

If you’re one of those guys telling to yourself that Antonio Banderas might be a little prettier then you but again your IQ beats that of Einstein by an inch, than the next lines were written for you. You have to know how to use your advantage against a two-digit IQ macho-man and this is no easy deal. Some studies even say that intelligence alone is actually not too sexy to most people. Therefore it would be wiser to use intelligent ways to seduce a woman then just act smart.

There are more ways to do this, some better and some worse. For example, you can be immoral enough to use your wits just to have sex, by manipulating women. For this “hit-and-run” approach you’ll need a little more than just your intelligence, you’ll have to know how the human mind, women’s in particular, work in order to outsmart them, control the game and win it using their own weapons. But before you get to keen on the idea just remember that there are other, more honest ways of winning a woman’s admiration.

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So you’ve met the man of your dreams. Your heart sings, your pulse races, you walk around all moony-eyed and have trouble thinking about anything but him. You want to tell him that you love him, and that you think that he’s The One, but you don’t want to seem clingy - or worse, scare him off.

We’ve all heard horror stories about one partner telling the other that they love them and then getting the “thanks, but no thanks” response.

Maybe you’ve experienced it yourself, adding to your fears. So how do you tell him that you love him without coming off like a creepy stalker?

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