Perfect Love Stories

Jump………………… I Promise I’ll Catch You

The nights became cold,

Darkness surrounding me..

I held him close..

Closer to me.

He wrapped his arms

Around my naked body..

Caressing me,

Feeling me.

Kissing my ears gently..

Soft whispers

Of his undying love..

He lusts for me.

I long for such intimacy,

Such orgasmic fantasy

Of lit candles and fallen rose petals

Surrounding us

Our bed,

As i lie beside him

Watching him..

Each movement he made.
I love the way he looks into my eyes,

Seducing me

With such innocent,

Sensual eyes.

I lie closer to him

Our bodies merged..

Inseperatable,
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Hold me close and don’t let go;
I’m so scared to be alone.
I’ve been by myself for too long,
And always had to be strong.
Now I only want to rest;
And lay my head on your chest.
Hold me close and don’t let go;
These wars I fight no one knows.
Now whisper how you love me,
Say it tender and softly.
I am weary and soon will sleep,
But with you no longer will I weep.
So hold me close and don’t let go,
For I never want to be alone.

Joanna Bassett

Crush

You know the crushing-feeling if you have ever gone off the deep-end gaw-gaw for another person. The Crushie places someone on a pedestal, thinking that he or she can do no wrong. There is a sense that there is no chance to ever requite your love for an adored person. You are simply a Pawn in this mental chess game you’re playing by adoring the King or Queen and wishful for any scraps of attention that might be thrown your way. A Crush is not Love, but it certainly is confusing. Having a Crush from a distance is also a safe-love stance. You can safely adore someone from afar and not get hurt.

Obsession / Addictive Love

I hesitate to associate the terms “obsession” or “addiction” with love. This is not Love, it is Control, or probably more likely, Lack-of-Control. Sometimes struggling to maintain or renew bad relationships is simply a bad habit. You can get so caught up in your current situation that you are not able to see a way out. Sadly, we can become comfortable in our difficult relationships because they feel so familiar.

Puppy Love

Puppy Love is so adorable and sweet. This is when two young hearts go pitter-patter for one another. This naive type of love has the smell of fresh Spring air. Puppy Love is a wondrous and unharnessed love that sees no boundaries. We’ve all been there and for anyone who can remember that rush of adrenaline feeling filled with emotion and idealism - it is a cherished memory. Puppy Love is a love that stands apart because it occurs before having experienced the pain of a broken heart, or the agony of a love gone sour.

Star-Crossed Love

Compatibility reports (astrology, numerology, enneagram) can signify the traits, characteristics of the perfect match for you. Do you really think that if it were not for the help of cupid that you could flounder alone for years and never find your soul mate? Aunt Bessie, the family’s eccentric matchmaker, may really know what’s best for you. What? What is all the fuss about having a soul mate anyway? Why don’t Mars and Venus play well together?

Tough Love

Tough Love is not really a type of love, but a strong path that is taken to step away from control or desire to help a loved one who has become too dependent on drugs or alcohol. In some cases, no substance abuse is indicated, but an unmotivated person who has been taking advantage of your caring ways needs to kicked to the curb. There is a lesson for both individuals in this Tough Love scenario. The caregiver learns to not be so giving of themselves and will allow the other person space in which to help himself. The dependent one is shown that he needs to take charge of his own life. Tough love can be “sink or swim” and can be heart-wrenching situation to endure. But when the swimmer rises from the depths of his dependence and becomes fully his own person, it is a win-win for both individuals.

Unconditional Love

Perfection! If there ever was a perfect love it would be Unconditional Love. We’ve all heard about Unconditional Love and many of us strive to embrace this type of love. Unconditional Love is a maternal instinct and can occur naturally. But, it is also natural to get side-tracked with our judgments, expectations, and good intentions. You don’t have to approve of or agree with someone’s life choices to love him or her unconditionally. Try it. Unconditional Love is the Ultimate!

Ready for a romantic evening with your spouse? Put the kids to bed early and get ready to relax. While your husband is watching the news after dinner fill the bathtub with hot water, lots of bubbles, and some rose scented oil and rose petals. use about 15 white candles all over the bathroom. Especially in front of the mirrors, the flicker from the candles in the mirror gives a nice romantic glow. Put a small table next to the bathtub. On the table put a tray with two glasses, some fresh fruit, and some champaign  or sparkling grape juice.  Now go  get your husband and lead him by the hand to your own private paradise. Relax together in the warm water feeding each other the fresh fruit and sipping champaign. You will be so relaxed you will have a wonderful evening together. Giving each other a bath can be a sensual heavenly experience.

Here’s what you’ll need to make the experience a perfect one:

Preciously fragranced room sprays, body mists, bath oils, massage oils, and other natural aromatics can enhance a romantic evening or add variety and intrigue to your marriage.

Planning in advance for special dates, evenings or other moments can help set the mood for a beautiful and quiet (or lively!) occasion. Putting special thought into all the factets of a beautiful evening will make your partner feel special and appreciated, and will make the event unforgettable in his/her mind. Much, however, can also be said about the benefits and wonders of spontaneous moments. Impromptu moments can rule out including some aromatic practices, but it is also possible to plan ahead for spontaneity. A lovely selection of natural aromatics can be purchased or prepared in advance so that you have them on hand for when the mood strikes. Read on for ideas.

A Word of Caution Before We Get Started…

We are all unique and differ in our appreciation and awareness of the sensory cues around us. At any given moment, we have unique sights, sounds, aromas, tastes and textures all demanding our attention. Some individuals prefer to maintain consistency in their surroundings and have a harder time than others in embracing new sensations. If you are unfamiliar with the preferences, limitations, allergies or possible sensitizations of the individual that has captured your romantic interest, it’s best to play it safe and limit your use of aromatics until you know more. It’s less spontaneous, but it’s caring and safe!

Aphrodisiac/Sensual Essential Oils

An aphrodisiac is generally defined as a substance that enhances or stimulates passion and sexual arousal. Substances, including essential oils, that are considered aphrodisiacs are substances that can help dissipate the physical, psychological or emotional ailments that may interfere with sexual desire or arousal.

Room Fragrancing

If planning a romantic evening at home that begins with dinner, select essential oils and oil blends that will complement the aroma of your meal or other aromas that may be present throughout the evening. Start with light, fresh, energizing aromas and lead to more sultry, exotic blends as the night progresses. Remember that less is more and not to overpower the room. If you or your partner smoke, consider diffusing lemon essential oil or including it in a blend to help rid the smoky odor from the room.

Room Sprays / Room Mists
A quick and easy way to sensually and naturally fragrance a room is to create a room spray in advance. A room spray is especially practical for those beautiful, spontaneous moments where minimal advance planning is the key ingredient.

Candles
Candles are frequently used to make romantic evenings more sensual. They simultaneously delight three of our senses. They tantalize our sight with their soft, flickering light. Fragranced candles heat the aromatics embedded within their wax and disperse the aroma throughout a room. They also generate heat and provide warmth to the skin.

When selecting candles for your most erotic or romantic evenings, choose candles that are fragranced only with essential oils or that are not fragranced at all. If you must use candles that are fragranced with synthetic fragrance oils, select candles that are lightly fragranced with a delicate, mysterious and arousing scent. Although an old addage says “The way to a man’s or woman’s heart is through his/her stomach,” I’d suggest saving your sugar cookie and pumpkin pie candles for holiday entertaining or other fun purposes.

Incense
The term incense is a broad term for perfumed dry aromatics that are burned. Countless forms of incense are available, but most are manufactured using synthetic ingredients. Some incense, most notably incense powders, cones and Japanese incense is available that contains only natural ingredients. Incense, when slowly burned, and when burned in a manner that doesn’t overpower a room can stimulate the senses. Incense, most notably those that include sandalwood, aloeswood, cinnamon, frankincense and sensual woods and herbs can simultaneously ease stress and enhance arousal.

Fresh Flowers
No aroma is purer than the aroma that permeates directly from freshly cut aromatic flowers, herbs and other fragrant botanicals. Create your own fragrant bouquets to complement your passionate evenings.

Rose Petals
Rose petals are not only beautiful, they are delightfully aromatic and velvety soft. They can be sprinkled upon the bed, upon a beautiful tablecloth awaiting a lovely meal, or even sprinkled as a “come hither” path leading your lover to you. Call your local florist or nursery to obtain fresh petals.

A Word About Unpleasant Household Odors
Stale odors, smoke and other unpleasant aromas can be unappealing at any time let alone during your most special occasions. Whenever possible, try to fully eliminate unpleasant odors and don’t just try to mask them. Keep your fridge and garbage cans free of decaying produce, meat stuffs and other smelly items by taking out your trash frequently. If you smoke, try to smoke outside whenever possible. Wash draperies and freshen fabrics regularly. Use a kitchen fan if you cook a lot of meat/fish.

Dinnertime
Select foods that you and your partner like, and that are fun or sensual to eat. Get creative. Foods that have been considered aphrodisiacs for their texture, shape or nutritional value includes oysters, avocados, cocoa (chocolate), asparagus, and strawberries/raspberries.

Bathtime
Using sensual essential oils, create a luxurious bath oil or sensual bath salts  for that next special bath.

Showertime
If you both prefer showering over bathing, you can still enjoy the natural aroma of essential oils during your shower ritual. After turning on the water and allowing it to get hot, sprinkle 2-3 drops of essential oil on the sides of your shower. The oils will disperse into the steam-filled air. Make sure that the surface that you drop the oils on will not become damaged (essential oils are highly concentrated) or stained.

Snacktime
Prepare a beautifully adorned snack plate that includes nourishing bite-size portions of fruit or cheese that you and your partner can serve to on another.

Rose Against Skin
After removing the thorns, gently brush the velvety tip of a long stemmed rose against the nose of your partner, allowing him or her to enjoy the aroma, and then glide the velvety tip across your partner’s skin. The combination of the aroma and feeling as it glides against the skin can be sensual and arousing.

Travel/Vacationing/Spontaneity Amongst the suggestions above are an array of ideas that can be used even when you are away from home or when you don’t have time earlier in the day to prepare. Described above, room mists, personal fragrances, linen sprays, bath oils and massage oils can all be prepared in advance and kept on hand for when the mood strikes. They can also be transported in your luggage (keep carry on luggage restrictions in mind) and kept on hand when you travel.

Everyday I get more afraid
Of giving my heart away
Scared of what love will bring
Too nervous to hear the words you’ll say
I find myself lost in you
Not sure if I want to be
I see the looks that you give
And wonder what you see in me
I don’t want my heart broken
But I am so in love
I can’t seem to give up
A guy sent from above
So I’m gonna trust you
Please don’t let me down
For I am giving you a chance
To turn my life around
Don’t take it for granted
‘Cause it might not last long
I have weak thoughts
And my heart isn’t too strong
I’m putting my life in your hands
Now it’s all up to you
I look forward to the places we go
And the things we’ll be put through
But remember that I’m vulnerable
And I can’t stand to be hurt
I want to be at the top of your list
But I don’t have to be first
Believe me when I tell you
That I love you with all my heart
That I’m here for you forever and always
Just like I was at the start…