Trying to Make Him Someone He Is Not
Did you ever notice how someone who was an “okay” guy in the beginning began changing and somehow down the road lost interest in the relationship? In the beginning the romance steadily climbed and after a couple of months reached its maximum intensity, but then suddenly hit a plateau, then it was downhill from that day on.
Loving then losing the man you thought loved you have always been a mystery. And when this new boyfriend comes along you tell him immediately the things you like and do not like because you wanted to be “honest” from day one. What happened in the past shouldn’t happen again, so you tell your new man the right way to show his love, and everything would be wonderful from the very beginning, right?
Sorry, but no. It doesn’t work that way.
A lot of women automatically think that she needs to “educate” their men and “teach” him how he should love her. Or you could simply be the woman that he loves. Honestly, you can’t teach and educate your man just to get the change that you want to find in him. In other words, you can’t be both a teacher and a lover.
For a man to be inspired to change, he needs to look up to someone he admires and tries to emulate. Only then can he change for the better, but remember that he won’t be changing for you. He’ll be changing for his sake.
